Childhood

My mum & dad sent me this today. You may have already seen it, or come to the same conclusion, but it’s still worth reading & thinking about:

CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1940′S, 50′S, 60′S AND 70′S !!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a tin, and didn’t get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, our baby cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a van - loose - was always great fun.

We drank water from the garden hosepipe and NOT from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from
this. We ate cakes, white bread and real butter and drank pop with sugar in it, but we weren’t overweight because……

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem .

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo’s, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no text messaging, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms……….

WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We played with worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever. Made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not poke out any eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!

Local teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that! The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law.

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL.

And YOU are one of them!

OK, so there are probably rather too many exclamation marks, but you get the point. Learning to take risks, experiment, and dream impossible dreams are all things that we’re squeezing out of our kids these days. Not that I approve of riding a bike without a helmet . . . but maybe its time to let ‘em live a little.

I’m sure that we’d all be astonished at what they can achieve.

Filed under: Family, Ranting

4 Responses to “ Childhood ”

  1. runningkate on August 8, 2007 at 12:20 am

    It’s amazing how kids are sheltered so much today compared to the past! Sometimes I think it was better the other way, people learned to survive in this world.
    I was born in the 80’s and did all of those things too… but now parents can be nuts! I hope I let my kids take some risks and learn from ‘em!
    Thanks for the post!

  2. gardenmentor on August 8, 2007 at 12:51 am

    I’m surprised I survived my childhood given things I did. I remember my favorite seatbelt, which allowed me to stand up & run around in the back seat. I have no idea how that worked. I bet it was designed to break every bone in the child’s body.

    At the rate things are going, kids are going to be so sheltered & so poorly fed & exercised that we’ll realize Jabba the Hut is where we’re headed!

  3. Lisa Sabin on August 8, 2007 at 1:30 am

    I was born in the 60’s and survived. Now I am raising my kids who were born in the 90’s. I have to admit I am nervous about my 13 year daughter walking all over town. As long as she is with a friend it’s okay.

    Helmuts and cell phones are okay by me. I agree that the kids need to be outside playing though.

  4. Fitness Over Forty on August 8, 2007 at 1:47 am

    I have mixed feelings about this. I also had a “street lights” rule, and I would get on my bike and be gone for hours - not only without a cell phone, but I didn’t even bring change for a land line if I needed it. Growing up for me (in South Seattle - as close to a ghetto as you get) I had two seasons. Street football, and school yard basketball.

    The exception was the summer. Kick the can was an evening summer social gathering of all the neighborhood kids. We would run around the neighborhood after dark, not a care in the world.

    My kids are definately different. Our two kids both competed in gymnastics for 7 years, so they got their exercise. It’s good, because I couldn’t bring myself to allow my kids to wander the streets alone. Maybe the world’s not as safe anymore, or maybe we just know more than we did before about the bad people out there.

    Either way, it’s not the same. Now that they are teenagers, we are giving them more space and freedom. It’s important to have the freedom to make mistakes and learn from it. But it isn’t easy as a parent to watch sometimes…